接入运维真实 metrics：负载、请求错误率与服务探测

- 新增 GET /admin/ops/metrics 与进程内请求统计中间件
- 运维页展示 CPU/内存/磁盘、24h 曲线与 WS/DB/存储状态
- 去掉未使用的消息队列占位项

server/go.mod

@@ -9,6 +9,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/golang-jwt/jwt/v5 v5.2.1
 	github.com/gorilla/websocket v1.5.3
 	github.com/minio/minio-go/v7 v7.2.1
+	github.com/shirou/gopsutil/v4 v4.25.1
 	golang.org/x/crypto v0.51.0
 	gorm.io/driver/postgres v1.5.9
 	gorm.io/driver/sqlite v1.5.7
@@ -22,8 +23,10 @@ require (
 	github.com/cloudwego/base64x v0.1.4 // indirect
 	github.com/cloudwego/iasm v0.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/dustin/go-humanize v1.0.1 // indirect
+	github.com/ebitengine/purego v0.8.2 // indirect
 	github.com/gabriel-vasile/mimetype v1.4.3 // indirect
 	github.com/gin-contrib/sse v0.1.0 // indirect
+	github.com/go-ole/go-ole v1.2.6 // indirect
 	github.com/go-playground/locales v0.14.1 // indirect
 	github.com/go-playground/universal-translator v0.18.1 // indirect
 	github.com/go-playground/validator/v10 v10.20.0 // indirect
@@ -41,6 +44,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/klauspost/crc32 v1.3.0 // indirect
 	github.com/kr/text v0.2.0 // indirect
 	github.com/leodido/go-urn v1.4.0 // indirect
+	github.com/lufia/plan9stats v0.0.0-20211012122336-39d0f177ccd0 // indirect
 	github.com/mattn/go-isatty v0.0.20 // indirect
 	github.com/mattn/go-sqlite3 v1.14.22 // indirect
 	github.com/minio/crc64nvme v1.1.1 // indirect
@@ -49,11 +53,15 @@ require (
 	github.com/modern-go/reflect2 v1.0.2 // indirect
 	github.com/pelletier/go-toml/v2 v2.3.1 // indirect
 	github.com/philhofer/fwd v1.2.0 // indirect
+	github.com/power-devops/perfstat v0.0.0-20210106213030-5aafc221ea8c // indirect
 	github.com/rogpeppe/go-internal v1.15.0 // indirect
 	github.com/rs/xid v1.6.0 // indirect
 	github.com/tinylib/msgp v1.6.1 // indirect
+	github.com/tklauser/go-sysconf v0.3.12 // indirect
+	github.com/tklauser/numcpus v0.6.1 // indirect
 	github.com/twitchyliquid64/golang-asm v0.15.1 // indirect
 	github.com/ugorji/go/codec v1.2.12 // indirect
+	github.com/yusufpapurcu/wmi v1.2.4 // indirect
 	github.com/zeebo/xxh3 v1.1.0 // indirect
 	go.yaml.in/yaml/v3 v3.0.4 // indirect
 	golang.org/x/arch v0.8.0 // indirect